Goal Setting In 2010

Was over at Rachel Hauck's blog today, where she was discussing her goals for 2010, which got me thinking about my own.

I really hate New Year's resolutions. Most of us need more than a new date on the calendar to inspire us to make real change in our lives. For more years than I care to count, I have resolved to lose weight and quit smoking. As if, suddenly, on January 1st I would be able to un-addict myself from smokes and roll back years of unhealthy eating habits. Please. So instead of saying that as of January 1, I'm going to stop doing such-and-such or suddenly START doing such-and-such, I'm going to take a different approach. After all, Rome wasn't built in a day, right?

Instead of viewing the new year as a starting and ending point for good and bad habits, I'm going to look at the entire year as a whole and set goals that I can work on for 365 days and beyond.

Numero uno for me this year is making connections. Hubby and I became members of the church we had been attending for a year back in September. We were officially announced to the congregation as such in December. (Picture a professional wrestler's entrance with pyrotechnics and everything. OK, just kidding.) I still have a bit of church anxiety that I deal with when it comes to "other church ladies." I struggle with feeling like everybody has it together but me, and I have to work really hard at not keeping myself at arms-length from others. But recent events in my life have shown me that God put these people in my life to be my family, and after a year of much loss, I need family now more than ever.

I guess you could say I want to stop making church a spectator sport. I don't just want to go on Sunday and then go home; I want to build a family and create a home.

Another biggie on my To-Do List is shutting up and letting God do His thing.
When things do not go at the speed I'd like them to, I throw myself into the ring and push as hard as I can, when I KNOW there are times God just wants me to hang back. As it applies to my writing, God has repeatedly told me, "Just write what I tell you to write about and do what I tell you to do and you'll be fine" but I wasn't seeing the progress I wanted, so I took matters into my own hands, only to watch it all backfire.

This is the year I learn how to shush.

Yes, I want to stay off the smokes and eat more lettuce this year, and that's important, but those things will be made easier if I work on the two biggies I mentioned above. I want to focus more on heart issues, because none of the "palpable" issues are going to be resolved until the heart ones are.

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